Trust Issues

  • Considering Divorce,  Divorce,  Financial Challenges,  Trust Issues

    Toxic Marriage: Debt, Secrets, and Betrayal

    by Anonymous Have you ever been in a situation where you feel something is WRONG? You have no burning proof, but a gut feeling? Read K’s story on how she learned to trust her gut, rely on family, and make the decision to leave a toxic relationship. Heading Into a Toxic Relationship One of the most exciting parts about finally being married to someone who had been my best friend since I was fourteen was changing my relationship status from engaged to married & changing my last name from my maiden name to his. Toxic relationships usually start off the same as any relationship does: happy and exciting. Because I…

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  • Anxiety and Panic,  Considering Divorce,  Dating,  Dishonesty,  Infidelity,  Mental Illness,  Therapy,  Trust Issues

    My Trauma Triggers || Recovering from Betrayal Trauma by Dani

    Josh and I headed to St. George last week for a wedding I shot down that way. Since we didn’t have the kids, we extended our trip so we could start out our year with a peaceful, relaxing week of pretty much doing nothing. We visited Zion National Park, Snow Canyon, ate some good food, spent time in the hot tub, watched a lot of movies, did some Yoga, and had great conversations in the car. I also had a panic attack. Panic attacks, while not as scary to me as they used to be, well, they suck. The first one I ever had was one of the scariest hours…

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  • Arguing,  Dishonesty,  Mental Illness,  Trust Issues

    Sink or Swim Part 2: Home of Anxiety & Depression by Anonymous

    Let’s set the mood: The wedding was over, the honeymoon was bliss, and real life set in. The first few months of marriage was great. W (my husband) and I found an apartment in a great location in Provo – and for all the married couples looking in Provo, you know that is no small feat! W was going to UVU while I finished my degree at BYU. As the fall semester ended and the Holidays approached, something changed. I felt myself becoming anxious for no perceived reason. I could feel something was wrong. I started to become the queen of nagging, picking apart W on the daily. At first…

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  • Anxiety and Panic,  Church of Jesus Christ of LDS,  Deciding to Marry,  Marrying Young,  Mental Illness,  Therapy,  Trust Issues

    Sink or Swim Part 1: Anxiety and a Relationship, How do I Know if I Should Get Married? by Anonymous

    How do I know if I should get married? Is it a feeling, is it trust, is it a risk? Knowing whether or not you should get married is very personal, but we recommend taking time to get to know your partner. See them when they’re angry, upset, frustrated, and stressed. Ask them every single question — nothing is off-limits. This author understands that anxiety and a relationship can make progression very difficult. Don’t hesitate to consult with people you trust, including loved ones, leaders, and therapists. Here is one woman’s story. I grew up a very happy person. I loved my family, loved my friends, loved what I did.…

  • Church of Jesus Christ of LDS,  Marrying Young,  Mental Illness,  Pornography Addiction,  Raising Children,  Substance Abuse and Addiction,  Trust Issues

    Worth the Fight: Substance Abuse in Relationships, Fight the New Drug, Mine and My Husband’s Addiction by Amelia

    Part I: The First Date Phase He was my best friend’s brother, six years older than me, and the mysterious cute guy who occasionally showed up to church. I wasn’t even a senior in high school, and he must have had lots of life experience by then. But I wanted to get to know him.  Two years later, I walked down the aisle to the handsome man I was too scared to talk to a few years before. I was a young bride, only 19 years old, but I knew that was where I wanted to be. We have been through so much together and many hard trials have come…

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